OT - Does this make sense to you?

Posted by Chronically Blunt at outboundhost203.mbusanet.com on November 12, 2002 at 09:18:38:

OK, so last night I'm sitting at home, and my girlfriend's cell phone rings. Turns out, it's a guy she works with, and whom I used to work with. Now, I've known this guy for 10 years. And, without going into much detail, I can say that he's not very smart, has a history of mistreating women, and getting himself into trouble.

So naturally, being that I love the girl, I tell her that it isn't in her best interest, and I would prefer she didn't, assosciate with him. And, as the normal course goes, she says I'm being possessive, they're just friends and that she doesn't see why she can't hang out with him.

Consequently, a girl that I used to coach, is going to be in town this weekend, and I told her that I would meet her for dinner. Now, this girl is 19, and I've known her since she was 10. I'm 24. So my girlfriend insists that these two situations are parallel, which I obviously say they are not.

So my question is, which of the following roads do I take.

A. Leave it alone, and take the chance that she gets hurt.

B. Give her an ultimatum and forbid her from seeing him.

C. Just beat the ever loving shit out of him, and hope that ends it.

Please advise.

Peas

Follow Ups:

• I choose "A". Leave it alone. David St. Hubbins 02:51:18 11/13/02 (0)
• Go call Dr Phil.... Altmann 13:23:51 11/12/02 (0)
• Advice Jim Shady 10:26:33 11/12/02 (4)
  • Noted Chronically Blunt 10:38:35 11/12/02 (3)
    • It's a rotten situation... Jim Shady 11:04:29 11/12/02 (2)
      • better yet Chronically Blunt 11:10:19 11/12/02 (1)
        • Re: better yet TommyM 11:18:53 11/12/02 (0)
• Re: OT - Does this make sense to you? TommyM 10:20:06 11/12/02 (3)
  • Get your nose outta the ink man..... Chronically Blunt 10:24:10 11/12/02 (2)
    • Re: Get your nose outta the ink man..... TommyM 10:28:50 11/12/02 (1)
      • Thanks Man *nt* Chronically Blunt 10:31:51 11/12/02 (0)
• what is this the Rickie Lake show ? gramp 10:10:27 11/12/02 (16)
  • Nope, it's just a rant. Chronically Blunt 10:21:00 11/12/02 (15)
    • same guy gramp 10:42:51 11/12/02 (2)
      • Thought so man.... Chronically Blunt 10:54:52 11/12/02 (1)
        • Re: Thought so man.... gramp 13:27:50 11/12/02 (0)
    • I enjoy posts like this. MichelleInMichigan 10:28:20 11/12/02 (11)
      • "we" amuse you ? gramp 10:46:21 11/12/02 (3)
        • Yep. MichelleInMichigan 10:56:51 11/12/02 (0)
        • mighty grumpy today gramps. u ok? * SexyJ 10:50:31 11/12/02 (1)
          • doing my Joe Pesci gramp 13:24:45 11/12/02 (0)
      • You'd have loved the otherboard..... Chronically Blunt 10:30:17 11/12/02 (6)
        • Was that the one that was called the riders MichelleInMichigan 10:32:17 11/12/02 (4)
          • No, he's talking about the Other White Board... miss d 10:43:10 11/12/02 (1)
            • Bummer, it sounds like fun. NT MichelleInMichigan 10:57:16 11/12/02 (0)
          • Nah, you couldn't get on that board.... Chronically Blunt 10:41:29 11/12/02 (0)
          • Nope *NT* Karla 10:32:53 11/12/02 (0)
        • Almost a year now...*NT* Karla 10:32:14 11/12/02 (0)
• first off, never try to control a woman..... SexyJ 09:31:58 11/12/02 (4)
  • Wouldn't try....but.... Chronically Blunt 09:38:35 11/12/02 (2)
    • and she doesnt know ANY of this? SexyJ 09:48:16 11/12/02 (1)
      • Well, I tried telling her.... Chronically Blunt 09:52:18 11/12/02 (0)
  • I agree with J jaclyn 09:37:33 11/12/02 (0)
• A. The more you try to control her, MichelleInMichigan 09:22:50 11/12/02 (1)
  • ....the sooner her batteries will go dead? Chronically Blunt 09:41:25 11/12/02 (0)

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