Posted by keri_jade at toronto-hs-64-26-176-154.s-ip.magma.ca on August 05, 2003 at 12:45:58:
In Reply to: Self-Image poll for the night peeps posted by Heather~Queen of Typonia on August 04, 2003 at 23:27:13:
: 1-Do you consider yourself attractive?
Yep. My love is like woah.
: 2-Do others express to you they find you attractive?
All the frickin' time.
: 3-Are you medically over weight? Under weight?
I'm right in the range (now). I'd like to loose some more, but it's not a priority for me right now. As long as someone is healthy, who gives a shit?
: 4-Do you feel happy with your body?
Ummmm, happier.
: 5-Have you ever done anything to try and change your body?
Yep. But specifically, what sort of changes do you mean? I've cut and dyed my hair a billion times, I wear make-up, I have a few piercings, I've lost weight (and, um, gained some at other times). Nothing like plastic surgery or that stuff.
: 6-Do you have tattoos? If so why? and What of?
Nope, but I'd like one. Either like Bam Margera's or the HIM heart-a-gram (because they're cool looking and I like what they stand for).
: 7-Do you have piercings? Why? and Where?
Yes. Both ears and my right nipple. I got it done at Wasaga Beach two years ago. I had won tickets to a Kim Mitchell concert, but my cousin and I got bored and explored the boardwalk. She got her ears pierced and I got my nipple done. Everyone asks if it hurt, which of course it did, but it was a good sorts of pain (pain is love, baby!). If I was that type of girl, I would have fucked anyone that night. But well, I remind you again that I was at a Kim Mitchell concert...mullets are not my turn on.
: 8-Are you comfortable with yourself nude? IN front of someone else?
Hmmm. It depends on how much I have invested. This past Saturday I had no problem flashing everyone and showing everyone my piercing. During sex the same rules apply. If it's someone I really like or am really attracted to, then yeah, I am self-concious and care about what they think. If it's just one of my slam pieces, then...hell no. What fun would that be. Two further things: Carney Willson says: "never deny yourself pleasure" no matter what size you are. The last and final thing is my theory that people know what they're getting into before they sleep with you (sorta). Dude, if your T-Shirt is straining, then your partner is not going to be surprised if you got a belly. People are smart. I myself love a good belly on a guy. I enjoy having something soft to lean my head on while I suck him off. Just more cushin for the pushin, I say.
: 9-How do yopu generally dress?
Well. I usually over dress. I frequent this bar that has no dress code. People will try to get away with wearing anything. I myself like to look as good as possible.
: 10-Do you think looks count when it comes to relationships?
Yes. There has to be some sort of initial attraction. And let's face it, when you first meet a person, you notice their looks first -- they might have teh most dazzaling personality ever, but you're not gonna know that the very first second you meet them.