Posted by SexyJ at 65.202.63.178 on November 13, 2002 at 16:48:13:
In Reply to: OT - Crisis Intervention and Mothers posted by MichelleInMichigan on November 13, 2002 at 16:29:21:
different. but just remember, you are both adults. handle the situation like adults. communication is the best cure for anything that pisses you off. if she does something let her know. and let her know that its your house now, not hers. like adam (i think) said, shes coming to you for a reason. maybe she realizes that is short and she wants to patch things up. dont ever say no to family (unless you are on the complete outs with them but even then....). you might screw up that one last chance you have.
if it were me....id let my mom stay. shes been there for me more than anyone. shed be more than welcome.
: My mom wants to move in with me and my daughter in February (through June) so that she can take a part time job in my area working for the State of MI. Right now my parents live 4 hours away, and it's still too close.
: My mom and I have always had a shaky relationship, and now she wants to move in with me! Good lord!
: How on earth do you tell your mother dearest (who is a nightmare when angry) that you don't want her to live with you?
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: Would you let your mom move in with you? Should I just stop whining and deal with it?
: -Michelle
: Queen of OT Land