Posted by Razorback at ool-4352a498.dyn.optonline.net on June 16, 2002 at 23:58:54:
In Reply to: I would agree with you in that... posted by Venessa on June 16, 2002 at 21:52:55:
I have always liked handcuffs or some other means of immobilizing my partner more than entertaining another person in bed. :)
A few "tools"; a vivid imagination (and some trust, not too much because then it is no fun); time and a location that allows for screams without a call to the police can do wonders to calm the desire to have 20 people in the same room. ;)
RB
: most women are dying for a fingercuffs experience, if i wasnt for all crap that ensues once youve experienced something like that. To do so with complete strangers is just stupid with all the current stds (even if you think your 100% safe there is still that 2% you end up thinking about).
: To do it with friends your risking losing the friendships or straining them, creating something negative. Or falling for one of them but then ultimately losing their respect. To do so with your lover, you run even more risks of losing it, jealousy, suspician, placing undue strain on it.
: If i could "take it like man" so to speak, and leave it thinking that i conquered, rather leave feeling used and a little cheap , or the fear of the consequences. i would finger cuff all the time.hahaha...