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: these things otherwise I am sure u wouldn't be saying them...but geez oh peas!! She isn't a little uh (by she i mean Jen) perturbed? Of course she is MARRIED to u.. Made me laugh anyway. grin : Zeta : : : you said that it says no where in the bible that pre-marital sex is : : prohibited. that is partly true; it is never directly stated that slipping : : the condom on before slipping the ring on is a hell-worthy tresspass. but : : think of this. : : Hit me with it, Brother in Christ. : : : (bad example follows) you are waiting for jen at the altar on your : : wedding day. she's walking up to you with her dad, lookin pretty as a : : picture. you grin to yourself as you imagine your life together. you can't : : contain the happiness; she's gonna be your by the end of the day. but as : : she's walking up to the altar to say the words that would make this : : ceremony complete, a man stands up and takes her arm. and another. and : : another. and another. until there becomes this sort of long chain walking : : up to you at the altar of jen and men. she reaches the altar, with all of : : the men arm in arm, next to her. you turn to her with this look of : : saddness. "what is going on jen? who are all these people?" you ask. jen : : answers "these are all the people i have shared relations with. they all : : have a peice of my heart. your gonna have to share them with me". : : Oh my God... : : Were you video-taping my wedding? : : : pretty un-realistic i know, but its sort of the way it goes. when you : : have a relationship with someone or sleep with them before marrige, you're : : sort of giving a piece of your heart to them. i belive that god made all of : : us for someone else, and that sleeping with someone before marrige is sort : : of depriving them of a proper relationship with their future husband. : : I can tell this means something to you. That's cool. But different : : strokes, you know. I'm not threatened by the notion that my wife gave a : : little piece of herself (i.e. - head and anal) to other folks before we : : were married. I'm glad she did - as now, she'll not lie awake in our : : marital bed late at night, wondering if she made the right choice in : : binding her life to a guy who has to lift his gut up in an effort to find : : that little piece of himself he wants to share with her. : : : even if you are to be married, its almost the whole try-before-you-buy : : thing. you may be madly and deeply in love with one another, but you should : : save it for marrige. sex is a special thing, very much of the lord, and is : : to be treasured. if you do the deed before marrige, and then get married to : : someone else, whenever you go to bed with your wife, you'll think back to : : your other times with other chicks that weren't meant for you and it maybe : : could get in the way of your sex life with your partner. : : Trust me - I CAN'T think of other chicks when I'm in bed with my wife. : : She's far too nasty (as in Ms. Jackson, if you're...) a lover. Honestly - : : I can't remember what sex was like with other women. : : However, if I DID happen to recall sex with other women in bed, my wife is : : such a dirty-talker between the sheets, she'd probably dig it. : : : If I'm thinking back on other chicks when I'm in bed these are just my : : personal thoughts, : : You're talking about jerking off here, right? Because they say the Lord's : : against that too, though I'm not quite sure. : : : but i belive that sex is something to be treasured and relished, not : : thrown at the next person who you think you are in love with. : : I believe that sex is for keeping the human race going. It's made to feel : : good so that we'll do just that. I don't think the Lord had such lofty : : ideals as love in mind when He made us fit into one another. I think He : : was thinking "If there are more of them, that means more tithing, and more : : cash in the collection plate." : : Kidding, of course. : : : i know there's the whole fear that you may feel like you are : : un-experienced with your wife when you do eventually get married (if you : : do) which is why i believe it's best to get married to someone who also : : walks with the lord, because then you are more likely to find that they : : have the same views, and then you would be as un-experienced as each other : : when the time came around. : : Or... : : After a few years of horrible sex, you both start sniffing around at other : : options. Temptation is born in curiosity of the unknown. If you know what : : you're missing, you're not as tempted. : : Honestly, I'm not tempted by other women, because I've been with other : : women, and I know my wife's got the goods. You can keep a brother down on : : the farm, because he's already seen Par-ee. And thankfully, the farm, in : : this exceedingly confused metaphor, is IN Par-ee. : : : as i said, these are only MY thoughts and my views may not be shared. : : If it works for you, sir, then God-speed. But I'm glad the wife and I : : played the field as extensively as we did. Because ultimately, the feeling : : is that out of all the hundreds of thousands of folks we've collectively : : fucked and sucked (alright - hundreds of MILLIONS), we chose one another to : : spend the rest of our lives fucking and sucking with. : : And that, to me, is the true treasure.

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