Posted by Sawa at nr9-66-161-171-28.fuse.net on November 25, 2001 at 11:10:23:
In Reply to: I don't understand, I'm in third grade. posted by SunViking on November 25, 2001 at 10:23:01:
all i'm saying is dont take my comments from last night too seriously. i was pissed, and somewhat confused as to what was going on.
i do think you're wonderful, and i love you. i'm not going to say that i agree with what you did, because i dont, but that doesn't mean i hate you or that i dont want to be your friend.
the spirit of the Other Board has always been that people can say whatever the hell they want. i dont think it was right for you to decide where the line was, or that it was crossed. i dont think it was anyone's right to decide that, except for ben and ming. if ben is the one who crossed the line, then yes, he should be taken to task for it, but jeapordizing him in the way you did is not cool. the fact is, the line is different for everyone, and i really wish that there had been some discussion of it before it was brought to kevin's attention.
i really wish i could speak more clearly about this, but i'm tired, and hungry, so let me know if i'm not making sense.
: : terri, dont jump to conclusions about who your friends are or aren't.
: I'm trying to figure out what your definition of a friend is, Sara.
: : i still love you to death, and i think you're wonderful....but that doesn't mean i'm not pissed about the fact that in essense, you got the board shut down. that doesn't mean i dont still think you're wonderful.
: : you see?
: I'm trying...but my comments didn't get the board shut down. Don't kill the messenger, sweetie.
: : it's like when you get mad at your mom because she wont buy you new shoes, so you tell her "i hate you, and i hope you die". you dont hate her, really. you're just pissed that you have to keep wearing old Nike's.
: Terri,
: Old Nike's.